Zig - Anyone who has been through troubles which have dragged on, without resolution for years goes through ‘phases’. There are more qualified to advise than I on how best to ‘manage’ those and minimise the damage to self. Every emotion is amplified, every nerve drawn taut to the breaking point. The constant need to ‘dig deep’ wears to the very core of your being. All I can offer is one word : Endure.
and a couple of lines from a poem:-
Kipling – IF.
and a couple of lines from a poem:-
Quote:If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’
Kipling – IF.